20 Books You Should *Actually* Read in Your 20’s

For those who haven’t had the pleasure of being on book Twitter this week, let’s get you up to speed first. This post, recommending ‘20 books to read in your 20s’ went viral. Just one guy sharing his favourite books to 'become your best self’ in a thread.

And people absolutely roasted him for it.

Some took issue with the almost complete lack of fiction or women authors. Others were baffled by the fact that the tweet was illustrated with a photo of 48 books, not the aforementioned 20. Some created their own parodies, including lists that recommended reading the iconic Rainbow Magic series or rereading Dune twenty times. Others simply replied with a single damning emoji: 🚩

Whilst a few of the books included are cult favourites for a reason—see Siddhartha and Sapiens—most of them are ‘self-help’ books that recycle the same ideas about discipline, ‘positive thinking’ and mindset. The core theme being “you can live like me, a privileged man, if you tried a bit harder!” It’s reflective of the trend for ‘self-optimisation’ and particular brand of hyper-masculinity that neoliberalism has spawned; as one tweet put it “the Silicon Valley-isation of literature”. The presence of Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk and not one but two Jordan Peterson books makes the stomach turn a little.

Okay, perhaps I’m being too harsh. There are no rules to reading. Read whatever brings you joy and fulfilment. If the original poster genuinely loves these books, go for it. It’s more upsetting that his enjoyment of literature is limited to the same kind of book. Where’s the variety? Where are the books written by someone who isn’t a millionaire or someone who models themself on a millionaire? Where are the books by women, queer and black authors? It’s like ignoring every great TV show and film to only watch one TED talk for the rest of your life. Yes, it might have some interesting insights, but that's as far as it goes.

Seeing as I am (nervously) approaching 25, I decided to create my own list, which like the original post, obviously reflects my own taste, but hopefully has a little more…depth. There are of course recurring themes: Love, Loss, Justice, Identity, Self-Reflection. These are the books that have enriched my life during my twenties so far, and thus it is an incomplete list. I expect to discover many more.

 

On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous - Ocean Vuong

Wild - Cheryl Strayed

Fresh water - Akwaeke Emezi

 

How to Do the Work - Nicole LePera

Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People About Race - Reni Eddo Lodge

Three Women - Lisa Taddeo

 

The Course of Love - Alain de Botton

Becoming - Michelle Obama

Cat’s Cradle - Kurt Vonnegut

 

Everything I Know About Love - Dolly Alderton

Know My Name - Chanel Miller

How to Fail - Elizabeth Day

 

Normal People - Sally Rooney

Educated - Tara Westover

The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel Van Der Kolk

 

We Need to Talk About Money - Otegha Uwagba

Conversations on Love - Natasha Lunn

The Handmaid’s Tale - Margaret Atwood

 

Daring Greatly - Brené Brown

Feminism for the 99% - Cinzia Arruzza, Tithi Bhattacharya, and Nancy Fraser

 
 
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